There's a Very Good Chance You Can Recover
Almost nobody gets every financial decision right. People in their 30s, 40s, and 50s make inadvertent mistakes for years without realizing it — and people already in retirement keep habits that quietly compound against them.
This episode of Money On Tap carries a twofold message, and it's worth saying up front:
First: whatever you've done, there's a very good chance you can recover.A comfortable retirement can still be a reality.
Second: don't do the rescue alone.You get one shot at your retirement. An experienced planner has been through retirement hundreds of times on behalf of other people — and has watched attorneys, CPAs, and advisors make mistakes you never want to repeat. Use that experience for your one chance.
Ben Brayshaw and Dan Michelon walk decade by decade through the most common mistakes they see — and the specific moves that fix them.
Your 20s & 30s: The Foundation Years
This is, ironically, the decade with the most power to create a successful future — and the decade most people waste.
Mistake #1 — Waiting to Invest
"I'll start investing after I get promoted." "I'll wait until I make more." "I should buy a house first." Something always gets in line ahead of retirement savings.
But money works best with time. Even small, seemingly meager dollars put away early — with literally decades to compound — become a huge sum. Skip them, and that's money you'll have to backfill later at a far higher cost.
Compound interest has been called the most powerful force in the universe. The math on a Roth IRA started at 18 — even $50 a month — is astonishing.
Mistake #2 — Lifestyle Inflation
Income goes up, and spending instantly follows: the bigger house, the better car, the vacation you never used to take. Keeping up with the Joneses is an expensive hobby.
The real cost isn't the purchase — it's what that money would have become. A $1,000 luxury today, compounded at 5–10% for 30 years, is a serious hole in your future income. Anything you can't afford is a luxury, and discipline around need-based purchases is a fight everyone — including your advisors — wages daily.
Mistake #3 — Ignoring Insurance and Risk Protection
Insurance feels like money wasted — until the day it's your best friend, and suddenly it wasn't big enough.
Here's the reframe that matters:insurance doesn't insure the event. It insures well-being— your family's, your spouse's, your own ability to retire. Disability coverage insures your ability tobecomeretired. And long-term care protection isn't about a luxury facility for you; it's about making sure your care doesn't dissolve the family's wealth and leave the healthy spouse impoverished. If you truly love somebody, that conversation is relevant.
Your 40s: The Squeeze Years
Your income is likely up and your career is established — and everything is pulling at your pocketbook at once: the mortgage, kids approaching college, aging parents, rising taxes. It may be the hardest financial decade to get through.
Mistake #4 — Turning Off the 401(k) Match
"Life is so expensive — I just had to turn off my 401(k) contribution." Ben and Dan hear it constantly, and it's the worst lever to pull.
Most employers match 4–6% of what you contribute.That match is free money — someone else adding to your net worth alongside you — with decades of compounding still ahead of it.Discipline every other line of the budget before you give up the maximum match.
Mistake #5 — Getting Too Comfortable With Debt
Stable peak-earning years make debt feel safe: the HELOC for the renovation, the credit cards that never quite clear, the vacation that upgrades itself every year. That comfort quietly erodes the retirement plan — especially when the monthly payments get offset by cutting 401(k) contributions.
Mistake #6 — Skipping Tax Planning
The 40s are where real planning starts. What should you be paying in taxes today so that you have tax-free assets — like Roth accounts — twenty and thirty years from now? Should you begin Roth conversions? What will retirement income actually look like, and where will it come from?
This is also the decade to make a crucial mental shift:from investment planning to retirement planning.Not "how are these investments doing," but "what income will I need, and how do I get there?" Retirement discussions should start at home in your 40s — and continue with a professional.
Your 50s: The Catch-Up Years
Whatever didn't get enough attention earlier, this is the decade to fix it. The house is filling with quiet, college bills are winding down, and these are usually the highest-earning years of your life. The government knows America is behind — which is why the catch-up provisions exist.
Mistake #7 — Getting Too Conservative Too Soon
Fifteen years to retirement can feel like no time at all. In market terms, it's still a long time — and portfolios full of CDs, cash, and savings accounts are quietly going backwards after inflation.
Ben's observation after years of these meetings: dedicated CD investors tend to live like paupers.They don't take the vacations. They don't spend. They never say it out loud, but they live like people who know they're losing ground.
The answer isn't recklessness — it'ssegmentation: breaking money apart by when you'll need it. Near-term dollars go in conservative buckets; the retirement dollars you won't touch for 15 years stay invested in profitable, durable companies. Risk and security can exist together in one strategy.
Mistake #8 — Chasing a Number Instead of an Income
Those old "What's your number?" commercials trained a generation to aim at a pile. But retirement isn't a race to a number — there's no parade when you hit it, and hitting it doesn't tell you how to live off it for 30 or 40 years.
The end goal is an income number, not a total number.How much monthly income do you need to live the life you want? Solve for that, and let a planner recommend the most efficient tools to get there.
The Catch-Up Toolkit
Four tools built for this decade:
- The 401(k) catch-up.Over 50, you can contribute above the standard limit. The government built this for you — use it.
- The IRA catch-up.The same principle for savers without a workplace plan.
- The HSA — the triple threat.Tax-deductible going in, tax-deferred growth, tax-free for qualified health costs — and a dedicated bucket for healthcare expenses in retirement. (The Money On Tap library has full episodes on this one.)
- The backdoor Roth.If your income makes you ineligible for direct Roth contributions, a backdoor Roth — with proper tax planning around it — builds a tax-free bucket for retirement. It's available now; it may not be forever.
Mistake #9 — Retiring Blind to Your Income Needs
Entering retirement without knowing what you'll spend — on healthcare, housing, food, travel, debt — is flying blind. The fix is separatingfoundational expenses(the ones that arrive every month no matter what) from discretionary ones, and making sure predictable income covers the foundation. If you've never broken out your foundational expenses, that's the first working session.
In Retirement: The Mistakes That Still Cost You
Mistake #10 — Flipping the Light Switch
Retirement isn't a light switch, and the day you retire isn't the finish line — it's day one of what could be 30 or 40 years. For a couple where both spouses are 65,there's a 25% chance one of you lives to 100.
Yet many new retirees immediately dump everything into checking, savings, CDs, and treasuries. Those rates don't beat inflation over decades. And watch the quiet version of the same mistake:target-date funds past their date.People arrive with target-date funds dated five years ago — parked in the most conservative allocation possible, at surprisingly high cost, without ever having made a decision.
Mistake #11 — Leaving Old Accounts Scattered and Unsegmented
Old 401(k)s left behind at former employers disempower you twice: they lock you out of intentional investment decisions, and they make estate settlement genuinely painful for a surviving spouse or children — every stray account is another claims process, another form, another delay.
Ben shared a recent case: a woman preparing for retirement, referred by a client, sitting in 60%+ bonds. The income she needed worked out to a 4.5% distribution rate — statistically fragile — and then came the real goal: helping her child with a first-home down payment, pushing the rate higher still. The fix wasn't more risk or less risk. It was abucket strategy: one segment built to produce income, another kept liquid for freedom and flexibility. The entire strategy changed — and she left comfortable takingmoregrowth where it belonged. All your goals don't land on the same day, so all your money shouldn't sit in one basket.
Mistake #12 — No Plan for a Health Change
Ben calls this the biggest one. Not "you didn't buy long-term care insurance" — you may or may not need that product. The mistake is havingno strategy at all for a health change, because a health change without a plan becomes a financial crisis in the household, and it leaves the healthy spouse vulnerable exactly when they can least handle it.
That plan includes the estate documents people put off: wills, trusts (and whether an irrevocable trust fits), powers of attorney, healthcare directives. These usually come to the forefront only when someone's health changes —and at that point, they may no longer be well enough to sign.It can be too late. Have the conversation while it's uncomfortable instead of impossible.
Final Thoughts: Rescue Is a Real Option
Every decade has its trap: waiting to invest in your 30s, turning off the match in your 40s, hiding in cash in your 50s, flipping the light switch in retirement. And every one of them has a fix — catch-up provisions, segmentation, tax planning, an income-first plan, documents signed while you're healthy.
Whatever your set of circumstances, the odds are good someone has been down this road before you — and the odds are good it can be rescued.
Don't give up on the notion of a successful retirement. Get intentional, get help, and right the ship.
Next Steps
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Frequently Asked Question
Is it too late to fix my retirement at 50?
No — the 50s are the catch-up years by design. Catch-up provisions let you contribute above the standard limits to 401(k)s and IRAs, the HSA offers triple tax advantages for future healthcare costs, and a backdoor Roth can build a tax-free bucket even if your income is too high for direct contributions. Pair those with a segmented "bucket" strategy — instead of retreating to CDs and cash — and most late starts can still be rescued. The first step is knowing your income need, not chasing a number.
The views expressed are educational in nature and should not be construed as personalized investment, tax, or legal advice. Investing is subject to risk, including loss of principal. No strategy, product, or tool mentioned can assure a profit or protect against loss. Individual situations vary — coordinate any strategy with professional advice. Past performance is not a guarantee of future results.
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